Saturday, October 15, 2011

Partners FOREVER??

I went into oblivion after that thought in my mind which was about movies related to love and romance. I am sure that everyone can name tens of movies which are about boy trying to ting bells in girls heart and then finally then end up in love. But we have not seen many movies which tells about after that. Isn't it? But why? probably because cinema is all about what is more fun to show. Does that mean after love happens there is not much fun and passion as before? The answer is PROBABLY YES! Let us think about the time when you started falling for your partner. In many cases the people fall for others after listening to their thoughts and seeing how do the person perceive world around him. For example the guy may be telling about his views of respecting girls, or what kind of peculiarities does he observe in a girl. If the girl sees that though the guy is talking about girls IN GENERAL but still he remains more interested in typical nuances of a girl's beauty like good hairstyles, that typical glow of her skin, her body language, her smile etc., more than vital statistics of a girl, then the girl may start liking the boy. Now both confront to each other and are in a relationship finally. Now can you guess what will happen? The guy will observe other girls IN GENERAL 'AS BEFORE' and will come up with INTERESTING LOGICAL POINTS as food for thoughts SAME AS EARLIER. But the same quality of the guy for which the girl had liked him before will go against THEIR relationship. Now the girl wants herself to be THE ONLY ONE TO BE OBSERVED AND COMMENTED UPON by the guy. But I ask such girls - 'Gal! Were you lying before that you liked this thing in him or are you psycho now??'. I ask the same question to all the readers of this post, especially girls - You initially believed that you were partners forever, but are you really ACTING LIKE PARTNERS FOREVER??

12 comments:

  1. :D BTW what was ur source of inspiration???

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  2. My source of inspirations are my observations about myself or people and situations around me.

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  3. I agree with you when you say that a girl would want "herself to be the only one to be observed and commented upon".Most of the girls can be like that while in a relationship but not all. Thats the difference between a friend and partner/girlfriend (even if u don't like this word). The problem will eliminate itself if she is your friend first, and then your partner.

    P.S. Would a guy like it if his partner says "hey, i like that guy. hes so humble, caring, sensitive and a thorough gentleman"??

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  4. @neha khattar: Thanks for the comment. The problem will only eliminate if she doesnt change as a partner and remains pretty much as when she was a frnd. And yeah i thnk the guy will feel good if she says that somebody else is caring and all. The reason being - first of all even if the guy doesnt feel good then also it is the truth. 2ndly if the guy really loves her then he will be feeling good to see her partner happy.

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  5. So much negativity... makes me gag

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  6. @Desert Rose : I am sorry if you got negative vibes from this post .. But these are true thoughts. :|

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  7. Rihanna "ONLY GIRL" Lyrics:
    Want you to make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world
    Like I'm the only one that you'll ever love
    Like I'm the only one who knows your heart
    Only girl in the world...
    Like I'm the only one that's in command
    Cause I'm the only one who understands how to make you feel like a man, yeah
    Want you to make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world
    Like I'm the only one that you'll ever love
    Like I'm the only one who knows your heart
    Only one...

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  8. @DESERT ROSE: the lyrics are beautiful but will you be able to provide me with relationship of this here with the post published by me.

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  9. Sure. Its telling you what a woman wants, and why she has issues when he is looking at other girls in general.

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  10. @Desert Rose : frankly I dont really relate to that thinking.

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  12. its a joke... you're supposed to laugh at it.. Ya, its a bad joke, but laugh anyway.. sheesh..
    http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lqti0lP5TF1qiwr63o1_500.gif

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